Relationship & Law of Attraction Secrets Revealed!

There's much more to having the Law of Attraction work in your favor than what the popular movie, The Secret would have you believe. You can't count on this one movie to be all the law of attraction advice you'll ever need. There's definitely information beyond The Secret and I'd like to share with you the advice I've learned and it is no Secret!

There's a little thing called your feelings, emotions or your vibration. When you're happily anticipating what you want to show up, then you're in vibrational alignment to your desire. Here's an example from my life.

My husband and I just got back from a Miracle Caribbean Cruise. What do I mean by miracle? Well, it was 100% free and it just dropped out of the blue and fell into our laps. Not only that, but a bunch of the big names in the Self-Improvement world were there. We got the opportunity to connect, brainstorm, and rub elbows with the biggest names in the Human Potential Movement!

The manifestation of this awesome cruise opportunity was a result of my husband and I playing with being in alignment with our desires and goals. There's a lot of power in being aligned with your intentions. What does that look like? It looks and feels like: What you want, how you feel and what shows up is always a match. I love it when stuff like this happens. It feels like a gigantic green light from the Universe telling me I'm right on track! This is beyond the basics and beyond The Secret. You can learn how to manifest my understanding your vibration.

  This is always true: What I think and how I feel, and what manifests, is always a vibrational match. But here's the big kicker: What manifests isn't manifesting instantaneously. So, you've got all this buffer of time leeway that makes you sloppy... If you thought a negative thought and a brick would instantly fall on your head every time, you'd clean up your thinking. But you're not here to be punished about your thinking. You're here to use your thinking -- and your focus -- to create. ~~ Excerpted from an Abraham-Hicks workshop in Washington, DC. May 7th 2005.

If you want something, like a delightful relationship or financial independence, for example, and you've been wanting it for quite a while -- 9 months, a few years, and it still hasn't shown up -- then there's something blocking you. There's something amiss in your vibration. If you take the time and care enough about cleaning up your vibration, you will attract and then allow what you want.

Here's the rub: we don't always know what's off in our vibration. Those pesky vibrational variances have been around long enough, we don't even notice them. Similar to the low hum of the computer processor, it just fades into the background. I call these vibrational variances counter-intentions. That's where getting  expert law of attraction advice or coaching becomes very helpful.

A counter-intention usually reflects a deeply ingrained belief that has been trained into us by previous generations. A counter-intention belies a limiting belief or a conversation rooted in the past of failure or disempowerment. If you don't know what your counter-intentions are, that's okay. Just know if what you want isn't showing up, something is blocking you and state a clear intention of what you want.

   1. State what you want.
   2. Tune in to what internal dialog you may have about why you can't have it.
   3. When negative emotion arises about why you can't have what you want or why it's taking so long to get it, soothe yourself into a better feeling thought.